Saturday, March 31, 2007

I Send A Message

I woulde hazard a guess I'm not the first person to wax lyrical on the pros and cons of the text message, but I can't help but marvel out loud at it's stunning rise to popularity and it's impossible to ignore impact on our daily lives.

I remember when they first came out and were free to send. They were more of a novelty than a legitimate (and I use the term loosely) form of communication.

I think it's funny how you can receive a text message from someone wishing you a happy birthday (for example), and you think 'wow that's really nice that they took the time to send me a message', and yet you receive a similar message from someone else and think 'I can't believe they only took the time to send me a text message'.

Whilst the text message is clearly a cowards best friend, it can also provide a safety barrier that enables you to say things to close friends that you wouldn't normally say out loud. Like when you receive a mesage from a close friend out of the blue that says they think you're awesome and hope you're having a great day. I received one of these just yesterday, and they really do make you feel awesome. I send them myself every now and then, but I have never, not once, actually called up a close friend and said 'I think you're awesome and hope you're having a great day". To some extent, that would be a little wierd, but sent in a text message and it's perfectly normal.

I'm not saying it's good or bad, I just think it's perculiar.

Friday, March 30, 2007

Scrubs

Dr. Dorian : You know sir, Dr. Townsend here was telling me you have some great old stories about the hospital. I'd love to hear one some time

Dr. Kelso : Well, what the hell. Back in '68 I dont like you. The end

Dr. Townsend : He tells that on a lot

Dr. Dorian : I know.

Monday, March 19, 2007

I'll Meme YOU

So my friend Julaberry tagged me with a meme of 'List 7 Songs You Are Into Right Now'. This is my first tag (that I know of anyway) and I couldn't think of a better one to break my seel with. Of course, I'm having trouble narrowing it down, so I'm changing the parameters to 'List 8 Songs You Are Into Right Now'. Here they are, in no particular order of preference

1. King Of The Rodeo by Kings Of Leon.
-it's rare these days to hear a good song that is totally devoted to the subject matter of having a good time. This is a work of pure joy for me.

2. Straight Lines by Silverchair.
-I've never had a problem with Silverchair, in fact, I think their freshman release contains what is one of their best songs to date. Straight Lines continues where "Diorama" left off.

3. Big As Life by Hamell On Trial
-if you're not already aware of this guy, source him out on the net. Seeing him play this song live last year brought tears to my eyes. Maybe I'm in a transitional period at the moment, but this song currently ties in with how I'm looking at life at the moment.

4. Soldier by Bowser
-a band from the Gold Coast. There's no one who's coming close to these guys on the local scene at the moment. Check our their myspace to hear some more.

5. Say Goodbye by Hunters & Collectors
- I saw the clip for "When The River Runs Dry" a few weeks ago and it rekindled my love for this incredible Australian Band.

6. Fighter by Christina Aguilera
- I've already posted my feelings on this girl. Whoever produced this track did an awesome job. Check out the outro.

7. Town Called Malice by The Jam
- What an intro. What great lyrics. What an awesome song. Makes me want to get up and dance every time. Listen to this song on the way to work, especially if you're on the early shift.

8. Pagliacci:Recitar! Vesti la guibba (sung) by Pavarotti
- he's an axe. Many a rant have I descended into on the topic of opera and it's singers, but there's always going to be exceptions. This is one of them.

Monday, March 12, 2007

Go See "Bobby"

On the Mindless Menace of Violence

Delivered by Robert F. Kennedy, City Club of Cleveland, Cleveland, Ohio
April 5, 1968

This is a time of shame and sorrow. It is not a day for politics. I have saved this one opportunity, my only event of today, to speak briefly to you about the mindless menace of violence in America which again stains our land and every one of our lives.

It is not the concern of any one race. The victims of the violence are black and white, rich and poor, young and old, famous and unknown. They are, most important of all, human beings whom other human beings loved and needed. No one - no matter where he lives or what he does - can be certain who will suffer from some senseless act of bloodshed. And yet it goes on and on and on in this country of ours.

Why? What has violence ever accomplished? What has it ever created? No martyr's cause has ever been stilled by an assassin's bullet.

No wrongs have ever been righted by riots and civil disorders. A sniper is only a coward, not a hero; and an uncontrolled, uncontrollable mob is only the voice of madness, not the voice of reason.

Whenever any American's life is taken by another American unnecessarily - whether it is done in the name of the law or in the defiance of the law, by one man or a gang, in cold blood or in passion, in an attack of violence or in response to violence - whenever we tear at the fabric of the life which another man has painfully and clumsily woven for himself and his children, the whole nation is degraded.

"Among free men," said Abraham Lincoln, "there can be no successful appeal from the ballot to the bullet; and those who take such appeal are sure to lost their cause and pay the costs."

Yet we seemingly tolerate a rising level of violence that ignores our common humanity and our claims to civilization alike. We calmly accept newspaper reports of civilian slaughter in far-off lands. We glorify killing on movie and television screens and call it entertainment. We make it easy for men of all shades of sanity to acquire whatever weapons and ammunition they desire.

Too often we honor swagger and bluster and wielders of force; too often we excuse those who are willing to build their own lives on the shattered dreams of others. Some Americans who preach non-violence abroad fail to practice it here at home. Some who accuse others of inciting riots have by their own conduct invited them.

Some look for scapegoats, others look for conspiracies, but this much is clear: violence breeds violence, repression brings retaliation, and only a cleansing of our whole society can remove this sickness from our soul.

For there is another kind of violence, slower but just as deadly destructive as the shot or the bomb in the night. This is the violence of institutions; indifference and inaction and slow decay. This is the violence that afflicts the poor, that poisons relations between men because their skin has different colors. This is the slow destruction of a child by hunger, and schools without books and homes without heat in the winter.

This is the breaking of a man's spirit by denying him the chance to stand as a father and as a man among other men. And this too afflicts us all.

I have not come here to propose a set of specific remedies nor is there a single set. For a broad and adequate outline we know what must be done. When you teach a man to hate and fear his brother, when you teach that he is a lesser man because of his color or his beliefs or the policies he pursues, when you teach that those who differ from you threaten your freedom or your job or your family, then you also learn to confront others not as fellow citizens but as enemies, to be met not with cooperation but with conquest; to be subjugated and mastered.

We learn, at the last, to look at our brothers as aliens, men with whom we share a city, but not a community; men bound to us in common dwelling, but not in common effort. We learn to share only a common fear, only a common desire to retreat from each other, only a common impulse to meet disagreement with force. For all this, there are no final answers.

Yet we know what we must do. It is to achieve true justice among our fellow citizens. The question is not what programs we should seek to enact. The question is whether we can find in our own midst and in our own hearts that leadership of humane purpose that will recognize the terrible truths of our existence.

We must admit the vanity of our false distinctions among men and learn to find our own advancement in the search for the advancement of others. We must admit in ourselves that our own children's future cannot be built on the misfortunes of others. We must recognize that this short life can neither be ennobled or enriched by hatred or revenge.

Our lives on this planet are too short and the work to be done too great to let this spirit flourish any longer in our land. Of course we cannot vanquish it with a program, nor with a resolution.

But we can perhaps remember, if only for a time, that those who live with us are our brothers, that they share with us the same short moment of life; that they seek, as do we, nothing but the chance to live out their lives in purpose and in happiness, winning what satisfaction and fulfillment they can.

Surely, this bond of common faith, this bond of common goal, can begin to teach us something. Surely, we can learn, at least, to look at those around us as fellow men, and surely we can begin to work a little harder to bind up the wounds among us and to become in our own hearts brothers and countrymen once again.

Saturday, March 10, 2007

Only Women Bleed

I just got off the phone with my previously mentioned very good female friend. She told me I should start a list of all the lame things females do when it comes to relationships. It'll be a perpetual thing, and please feel free to make suggestions. In the spirit of bipartisanship, I will also (soon) happily start one listing male's relationship shortcomings.



But to get the ball rolling....


1. Showing glaring signs of interest in a male only to reveal, after it's too late for the male to recover his dignity, that you actually already have a boyfriend.

2. That thing where you say "I just can't be with you right now", but what you mean to say is "I don't want to be with you, but at the same time, you can't start seeing someone else, because I want you around as a back-up in case I end up not being able to find someone better than you".

Thursday, March 08, 2007

Serpentine

I got to pet a live snake at work today.



How cool is that?!

Monday, March 05, 2007

I Don't Wanna Grow Up

I've been thinking about what it means to be an adult lately (and not just because I had a birthday recently). A few weeks ago I was embroiled in a situation that required me to make a very difficult decision in a relatively short amount of time. It was hands down the hardest thing I've had to decide in a long time, and right up until the end there was no clear path. Adding to my woes, once I made the decision there were instant repercussions, which I wasn't expecting.

It's an experience I don't care to repeat any time soon, but at the end of it, I couldn't help but feel that I climbed another rung on the ladder of adulthood, and that provided an almost bizarre feeling of contentment and accomplishment.

But it wasn't until last week whilst dressing for work that I truly felt like I had arrived as an adult.

As a younger man, I used to marvel at men who would wear long pants all day, even during the most brutal of summers. I could never for the life of me figure out why anyone would do that to themselves, and reasoned that that's what you have to do once you're a proper grown up, and decided that henceforth I wouldn't have to wear long pants during summer. Ever.

Then, last week, as I started getting dressed for work, and the mercury pushed past 30 degrees, I pulled on my favourite pair of jeans and thought "Wow. I've finally made it".

Stranger Than Fiction

When next you have the chance, please watch this movie

It's brilliant.